It's about YOU not you....

....this blog is not intended to hurt, blame or slag anyone off. It is not me attention seeking, playing a game or being mean.

The reason no one has a name is because it is not aimed at blame or hate.

I truly am using experiences in my life to help other people understand that only you can look after you.

Only you can take hold of your own hand and guide it to your happiness and self worth.

Why does the majority try to find themselves and their happiness in other people? Why do the majority blame others for there flaws and unhappiness?

If you feel unhappy about a certain something or a certain person then only you can make those changes to make it happen.

There is a way forward if you dig deep, find that fire in your belly and roar like a lion.

So to sum this blog up, it's actually all about you.

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This is Me

My name is Lola, I'm 28, a single mum of 2 gorgeous boys and I am the Co-Director of The FitMama Studio Ltd in Basingstoke. Writing it down and seeing it seems exhausting enough... I have started this blog to not only help me find my truth but help me through my journey to self worth and self love. It is intended to show those mummies who struggle, who are scared, who are unsure, who need courage and inspiration to take the steps to become a better version of themselves. I want all mummies to know that 'its ok' and 'you are normal' and only YOU can find your own happiness and only YOU can change what needs changing. I hope by following me you feel safer in knowing that your not alone. Sending my Pixie dust your way ✨🌟

4 years on.... tomorrow, to the day. Spooky.

I announced last week that I was thinking of writing my blog again and had not thought much of it until today. I honestly just sat down and started playing around with the theme, the colours and my profile and as I started to actually write I saw that it has been 4 years. WOW. As I was flicking through my blog, I saw that I had something like 500 viewers. I did not even realise many people were even interested in what I had to say. It spured me on to share with you my experiences of all the many hats that I wear. I have lots of hats; A mum to 2 boys with different dads, this comes with 2 separate hats that sometimes have to go together, a step mum hat , a wife hat, a student hat, a business owner and sometimes I manage to get time in for friends hat ;) I am not a writer or particularly good at grammar or spelling.... I am sorry if my writing offends the grammar police ;) So why have I decided to write again? My mum reminded me of the small blog I started in 2013 and so I r

My own Bubble

I have had quite a few of you asking me, when is my next post. I have been wrapped up in my own little bubble, it's really quite nice in here. On a serious note. Writing down my past feelings brought back a lot of emotions and memories, some of which I had forgotten. I have needed to deal with this in my own way. Writing this blog started my journey to true recovery. I decided to get rid of plastering up my emotions with antidepressants, no partying the nights away, no stupid training regime and no 'starving' myself or bingeing on chocolate.... These are my usual tricks to ignore the pain inside. I have decided to feel my pain and let it burn. If I do not feel the pain, how will it go away? It wont, it will stay forever. All that pain will eat away inside, without me even realising. One day it will show its ugly head in the form of a bitter, twisted, single mum who hates men (and women) and will just be sad. I certainly do not want to be that person. I want to stay me.

The Truth: Beginning of the End

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