It's about YOU not you....

....this blog is not intended to hurt, blame or slag anyone off. It is not me attention seeking, playing a game or being mean.

The reason no one has a name is because it is not aimed at blame or hate.

I truly am using experiences in my life to help other people understand that only you can look after you.

Only you can take hold of your own hand and guide it to your happiness and self worth.

Why does the majority try to find themselves and their happiness in other people? Why do the majority blame others for there flaws and unhappiness?

If you feel unhappy about a certain something or a certain person then only you can make those changes to make it happen.

There is a way forward if you dig deep, find that fire in your belly and roar like a lion.

So to sum this blog up, it's actually all about you.

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