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This is Me

My name is Lola, I'm 28, a single mum of 2 gorgeous boys and I am the Co-Director of The FitMama Studio Ltd in Basingstoke. 

Writing it down and seeing it seems exhausting enough... 

I have started this blog to not only help me find my truth but help me through my journey to self worth and self love. It is intended to show those mummies who struggle, who are scared, who are unsure, who need courage and inspiration to take the steps to become a better version of themselves. 

I want all mummies to know that 'its ok' and 'you are normal' and only YOU can find your own happiness and only YOU can change what needs changing. 

I hope by following me you feel safer in knowing that your not alone. 

Sending my Pixie dust your way ✨🌟

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  1. Julie Halls28 May 2013 at 01:58

    I love you words Lola. I shall be following you along the way and gathering up some of that Pixie dust to help me along my way too xxx

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